| October
6, 2008 Changes In Boss/Employee Relationships Interview
with Jamie Showkeir, author of
Authentic Conversations | Mike
Carruthers: If you had to describe the nature of the typical
boss/employee relationship, it's similar to a parent and child.
Jamie Showkeir:
Because the premise on which our organizations of today were founded was generated
well over a hundred years ago by people who were looking at non-skilled labor,
as folks who could not be trusted and had to be told what to do. Jamie
Showkeir, author of the book
Authentic Conversations, says that style of relationship, although common,
doesn't really make much sense today. Most
people want to do a good job. Most people are trying to do their best, most people
want to make a contribution and they do not show up with the attitude of, "I
can't wait to get there to see what I can screw up today."
So Jamie is advocating
that employers loosen up the reigns a little bit, allow people
to self-manage because when they do, it is unlikely that they'll
take advantage of the situation.
Not
only is it unlikely to happen, what we've found with clients where we've done
this work is that when people are responsible for their own performance management
they are harder on themselves than their boss ever would be. And
making employees accountable to their colleagues rather than to a boss also has
advantages.
What we typically
find is if I'm accountable to my peers instead of a boss and
I'm not carrying my weight, my peers are letting me know on
a day-to-day basis, "Hey man, you're falling down on the
job." And typically that is way more powerful corrective
feedback and way more powerful positive feedback.
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